Finding the elusive G-Spot!

The G-spot was first documented back in the 1950’s by a German obstetrician and gynecologist Ernst Gragenberd, and has since then taken his name. His writings on the subject sparked much debate and even today there are studies being done that suggest some women may not even have this very special spot. The majority of women will however confirm that they indeed do have a G-spot, and when it is stimulated properly it can lead to much more intense and gratifying orgasms than can normally be achieved through clitoral stimulation.

So now that we have your attention, you are probably wondering, “How can I find my G-spot?” To find your G-spot, insert a finger or two into your vagina while lying on your back. If you move your finger up along the upper wall of the vagina (about two inches up) and crook your fingers making a hooking or beckoning motion, pointing towards the belly button, you should notice an area of tissue which feels rougher and when stimulated is noticeably different (similar sensation to when you have to urinate). Here is a diagram to help you locate your G-spot.

Now that you’ve found your G-spot there are some things you should know about how to achieve G-spot orgasm and what to expect once you have. Of course like with anything else, everyone is different and achieving orgasm through G-spot stimulation is not the same for every woman. There is however some common characteristics in how most women achieve this orgasm and what happens once they have reached it;

-Generally the woman is already very sexually aroused, having already had one or more orgasms
-Continued stimulation makes her feel like she needs to urinate and once she reaches a certain point she feels the need to push down
-Clear liquid will spurt out of the urethra once orgasm is achieved (don’t worry, you haven’t pissed the bed, this liquid is clear not yellow and smells sweet not like, well urine)
-After orgasm the woman will feel drained and sexually gratified, difficulty walking directly afterwards is normal!

The amount of liquid that comes out can be an issue for some couples as the range can vary from a cup to a quart or more! It is advised that you are comfortable with your partner and your own body before attempting this type of orgasm as it can be very messy. There are hundreds of toys specially designed to stimulate the g-spot if you’d prefer to play solo and even creams that are designed to help women achieve G-spot orgasms and to intensify the orgasm itself.

It can also be an incredibly sexy role reversal to be the one ejaculating on your partner for a change. So what are you waiting for? Find your G-spot, get off, get wet and have fun!