the week my assistant went...

She's gone on vacation and I miss her already, she will be back though. In the meantime here's a selection of some of her favorite toys.

25X Slimline G-spot 7” Vibe

The 25X Slimline has 5 different functions, each with 5 different speeds, which means 25 different ways to make you climax! Made of a smooth pink plastic, this vibrator is curved to hit your g-spot. It takes two C batteries (not included) so this toy is very powerful on its top speed. Priced at under 40$ it is quite affordable and to top it off she glows in the dark for fun night time play!

Mini Ultra-matic Stimulator

This product might be small in size but it is true, sometimes great things come in small packages! Made of a velvet touch soft material this high powered multi-speed vibrator is sure to satisfy. Its water proof, so it can go anywhere and comes with a hand string to help hold on! Included are two sets of batteries, this product is ready for use when you are!

Night Moves Vibrators

The Night Moves vibrators are a series of toys that have been designed for women, by women. They come in a variety of sizes, shapes and colours, and are all whisper quiet. With multiple speeds, night moves vibrators are designed with an easy turn-dial so no more button mashing! All the vibrators bend easily so they should have no trouble finding just the right spot.

The perfect party...

Bachelorette party supply list…
-Penis cups, shooters, straws, badges, ice cube trays (great for jello shooters), cookie cutters, tiaras, air fresheners, masks, hats, grow-a-pecker, platters, trays, cake pans, sports bottles, whistle, balloons, toothpicks, pens, salt & pepper shakers, necklaces, cocktail mixers, candles, aprons, martini glasses, beer glasses etc…
-Drinking games, dice games, card games, I Dare You cards, bar challenge, bachelorette bingo, dirty dominos, Ring a Ding-Dong etc…

Ideas for a great personal wedding present for your closest friend…
-Flavored, warming or scented massage oil
-Adventurous couple’s game
-Spicy bondage items
-We-Vibe the ultimate couple’s toy
-Sexy piece of lingerie to finish off the perfect day

The perfect present to embarrass the groom
-Blow up donkey
-Boob inspector badge
-Boob hat
-Female blow-up doll
-Sexy male thong, leopard print is an option

The thing is, that whatever you choose out of all these options, you can find them right here! Ask the staff for suggestions, planning a bachelorette party is a fun and exciting task, we absolutely love helping. Take your time and consider stepping out of the box, make this a night to remember. Most importantly though, have fun!

Saturday xcitement...

Every Saturday until supplies last we'll be giving away a free gift with a purchase over 20$. There's thousands of items to choose from, something for everyone! While you're in the store don't forget to check out our tester corner! We've supplied many pamphlets and information regarding toy care, lubricants, sex toy materials etc... There's over 12 different kinds of lubes, massage oils and lotions to sample, come in and see what you're missing!

Learning to pleasure yourself and your partner...

At Xcitement Video we offer not only hardcore pornography but we also offer educational sex videos that help us learn how to please ourselves and our partners. Here are two examples of our instructional guides reviewed by a member of our staff.


One of our more recent DVD arrivals is Exploring The “O” Vol. 3 (2007). Host - sex educator - Jayme Waxman is knowledgeable and personable as she navigates the audience through the film. She appears to be a bit of a novel at being in front of the camera but her down-to-earth personality is refreshing and never boring. This is a film that mixes facts and tips on how to reach a range of orgasms; be it clitoral, g-spot, oral, anal climaxes or female ejaculation. The smart, sexy film goes a step further in its explanations of the myriad of ways to make a woman cum, by alternating frank and candid discussions with live sex and masturbation scenes. This a great film for women, couples and men who want to learn new ways to please their women, improve on the tried and true or who just want to learn more about the notorious “O”.


The Better Sex Guide to the Kama Sutra (2004) is another fantastic educational watch. It explains how the book, the Kama Sutra, is more than just a guide to elaborate and difficult sex positions, as many people may have preconceived.

It was written 1600 years ago and is still a well respected and widely used beacon of sexual information and a guide to better sexual, intellectual and emotional connections between partners. The film highlights the many important points brought up in the Kama Sutra, including the importance of bathing and massage to sexual ecstasy, as well as displays sex scenes between real couples demonstrating a variety of sexual positions. While the sex scenes were interesting and arousing, and the tips were useful, I still found myself only slightly disappointed by some of the choices made by the film-maker. I was hoping for some more advanced positions than those featured. However, this is only a matter of personal taste and I still learned quite a few new things! Aside from that, the film was excellent and I highly recommend it to everyone!

Kit of the month...

There are several different sex toys out there and some times it's difficult to know where to begin. For this very reason, kits are an awesome choice, for seasoned pro who know a good deal, or for first timers who want to try new things.

Our featured kit this month is Candy Toy-Set at 63.99$, there are 9 toys and a set of 4 batteries. Once you put the regular retail price of most of the toys in this kit together, you find yourself with savings up to 80$. Here's a detailed list of the toys included in this kit.

1. Vaginal balls - You can wear this day or night, as you move there is a vibrating sensation created. These guys are also used to exercise Kegel muscles, to strength and give a more tight feeling to the vagina.
2. Anal beads - These should be inserted and then removed at the height of orgasm for a new exciting feeling.
3. Cockring with clit stimulator - Worn on the penis this cockring has a clit stimulator attached to give your partner pleasure and you a longer lasting, harder erection.
4. Male masturbator - A kit that comes with a toy just for him, can be enjoyed with both partners with a creative imagination.
5. Hard vibe - Smooth 5inch vibrator, takes 2 AAs.
6. Vibrator sleeve - Turn your new 5inch vibe into a smooth jelly vibe when the sleeve is put over top.
7. Solid dong - None vibrating 6inch solid dong.
8. Penis cuff - Make him an extra inch thick!
9. Bullet vibrator - Bullet vibrator, can be used solo or during sex, great for fore-play, takes 2 AAs.

All these toys can be used in a variety of ways, take a kit home and let your imagination run wild.

Bondage for beginners...

When talking about bondage one must be clear of the definition given. The simplest terms are the restriction of someone’s movement using restraints for sexual pleasure. The most important thing to keep in mind is that bondage shouldn’t be practiced unless complete trust is a part of the relationship.

Experimenting with bondage can be a fun way to heat up a relationship and many people have dabbled with one variation of ‘tie and tease’ or another. Tie and tease is more or less what it sounds like, one partner is restricted by restraints (the bottom or submissive) while the other takes control of situation (the top or dominate) and determines how much stimulation their partner receives. Once again the aspect of trust must be emphasized as one of the partners involved will be restricted and very vulnerable. Thoroughly discussing what each partner is comfortable with and creating a safe word that automatically ends the game beforehand is advisable.

The attraction to this type of play stems from various desires, some people enjoy being given direction and taking orders, given the chance to relax and be provided with pleasure without directly giving it back. Some people enjoy the adrenaline rush that is brought on from rougher sex, play-struggling, and the strong sense of trust that is gained from knowing their freedom is being placed in their partners hands. The person on top benefits from increased power over their partner, however the sexual gratification of both partners should always be the goal, bondage play should be about pleasure for both partners, not abuse.

Here are some tips for bondage first-timers:
-Keep things simple, use restraints that can easily be broken such as paper or thin chains (giving the restrained partner the ability to free themselves when desired)
-Switch things up, take turns being tied up and being the one who ties your partner up
-Use something comfortable like silk scarves or fur lined love-cuffs
-Using a blind fold or mask can be very sensual, having one sense taken away can heighten other sense when being kissed, licked or massaged.
-Set up a safe word, this is special word that both partners agree on before the game starts, once this word is said during play the game ends no questions asked
-Try using fetish tape both as lingerie and restraints
-Use of edible body paints and massage oils on a restrained partner can be delicious and exciting for both partners.
-A variety of bondage kits can be found which include several items to get you started!

You should only try bondage play with a trusted partner, (don’t try it with someone you have just met!) talking about things thoroughly beforehand is a good idea.

Here are some pictures of some of products described in this article and available here at X-Citement Video.

Bondage tape: Sticks to itself, not your skin...

Bondage kit: Comes with everything a beginner needs, safe candle, small whip, fur cuffs, nipple clamps, bondage rope and a bullet to tease your restrained partner.

Bondage section: This section has whips, crops, floggers, nipple clamps, safe restraints, nipple arousal items, sex swing, and so much more.

It's here and selling fast!

We can barely keep the We-Vibe in stock! Freshly added to our inventory this toy has been flying off the shelve since it arrived!

The We-Vibe boasts a unique design that allows for both external and internal stimulation for women engaging in both solo and partner play. With two powerful (and rechargeable) motors, the We-Vibe provides dual vibe stimulation in all the right places for a man and a woman – making it’s use during sex an elevation to new heights of orgasmic ecstasy. As if that was not enough to revolutionize sex as we know it, the We-Vibe lasts for up to two hours making those wild nights just a little bit wilder.

The We-Vibe is soft and conforms to the female shape, so it is comfortable and easy to use. Its unique design allows the We-Vibe to hold snuggly in place during both solo play and throughout intercourse. Best of all the We-Vibe is hands free, strap free and wireless – freeing up both your mind and hands to focus on the moment.

Discreet in size, the We-Vibe also comes in a case that looks much like an eye glass case, which makes it ideal for travel and did we mention its waterproof!

One addicting vibrator...

The Sex Drug is addicting, plain and simple. I’ve owned this toy since my first week at the shop 3 years ago! As soon as I saw it-- pink, bold and elegant--I immediately fell in love with it, and knew this toy was coming home with me. It features dual elements, a rotation shaft for use internally, and a bullet attached to it for clitoral stimulation, which makes for one intoxicating ride.

Dual vibes have come a long way and the Sex Drug is a true testament to that. The intense vibration from the bullet at its top speed can almost be too much at times, but with its easy multi-speed controls you can tease yourself into ecstasy at your own pace. The shaft is powerful, both in size and with its innovative rotating metal bead design. The beads are well spread out over the whole of the shaft instead of in a big clump like some dual vibes, and they have their own multi-speed control as well.

The toy is coated in a firm but soft pink jelly material and the base is hard plastic with easy-sliding up and down controls.

There's was only one problem I found with this toy, and that was a minor one. Putting the battery cap back on (since it is recommended to take out batteries in between uses) was a bit tricky at first. However, after a few months, I became a pro and this hasn’t been an issue since.

This toy is worth every penny, and with proper care, has proven durable.

I recommend the Sex Drug to anyone looking a dose of Xcitement.

Are you taking care of your toys properly?

I want to introduce everyone to the idea of anti-bacterial cleaners. Sex toys get dirty, and it's important for health reasons to keep them clean and in good shape. We sell a few different cleaners that should be seen as an extra precaution to keeping your toys bacteria free and sex for years to come.

Climax Bursts is an anti-bacterial toy cleaner that is safe for all sex toys and vibrators. This water-based toy cleaner is enriched with Vitamin E to protect your skin. Climax Bursts is filled with tiny bursting beads to give your toys a deep clean. It comes in a 4 fl. oz plastic bottle. It has a pop top to prevent spills and messes. Use Climax Bursts with water to clean and disinfect your sex toys.

Penthouse - Brand Spankin' Toy Cleaner is an also an anti-bacterial toy cleaner, clean toys for dirty fun! It comes in a 4 fl. oz. easy spray dispenser and makes cleaning your toys convenient, quick and easy. Use this product on rubber, latex, vinyl, silicone, glass, metal, CyberSkin, NatureSkin and more, it’s compatible with every type of sex toy material!

CyberSkin Renew will help keep your new realistic feeling toys feeling new for years to come. RENEW is specially formulated to maintain the unique soft, lifelike texture of CyberSkin, NatureSkin, LoveClone and so many more realistic feeling materials. Use for maintenance and storage to help your favorite toy last.

A couple of other tips on maintaining your toy!

-All toys should always be washed in between uses.
-Anal toys and vaginal toys should be kept separately, unless you can sanitize fully, with either boiling the toy (silicone, glass) or the use of an anti-bacterial toy cleaner.
-Lubricants are highly recommended with toys, dry use can lead to tearing of the toy or yourself!
-Batteries should be stored separate from the toy.
-Cheaper no-name batteries (We carry C, AA, AAA, N, and cell batteries) should be used, high end batteries over work your toy and will eventually break the motor.

Finding the elusive G-Spot!

The G-spot was first documented back in the 1950’s by a German obstetrician and gynecologist Ernst Gragenberd, and has since then taken his name. His writings on the subject sparked much debate and even today there are studies being done that suggest some women may not even have this very special spot. The majority of women will however confirm that they indeed do have a G-spot, and when it is stimulated properly it can lead to much more intense and gratifying orgasms than can normally be achieved through clitoral stimulation.

So now that we have your attention, you are probably wondering, “How can I find my G-spot?” To find your G-spot, insert a finger or two into your vagina while lying on your back. If you move your finger up along the upper wall of the vagina (about two inches up) and crook your fingers making a hooking or beckoning motion, pointing towards the belly button, you should notice an area of tissue which feels rougher and when stimulated is noticeably different (similar sensation to when you have to urinate). Here is a diagram to help you locate your G-spot.

Now that you’ve found your G-spot there are some things you should know about how to achieve G-spot orgasm and what to expect once you have. Of course like with anything else, everyone is different and achieving orgasm through G-spot stimulation is not the same for every woman. There is however some common characteristics in how most women achieve this orgasm and what happens once they have reached it;

-Generally the woman is already very sexually aroused, having already had one or more orgasms
-Continued stimulation makes her feel like she needs to urinate and once she reaches a certain point she feels the need to push down
-Clear liquid will spurt out of the urethra once orgasm is achieved (don’t worry, you haven’t pissed the bed, this liquid is clear not yellow and smells sweet not like, well urine)
-After orgasm the woman will feel drained and sexually gratified, difficulty walking directly afterwards is normal!

The amount of liquid that comes out can be an issue for some couples as the range can vary from a cup to a quart or more! It is advised that you are comfortable with your partner and your own body before attempting this type of orgasm as it can be very messy. There are hundreds of toys specially designed to stimulate the g-spot if you’d prefer to play solo and even creams that are designed to help women achieve G-spot orgasms and to intensify the orgasm itself.

It can also be an incredibly sexy role reversal to be the one ejaculating on your partner for a change. So what are you waiting for? Find your G-spot, get off, get wet and have fun!